Sadly I slept with my ex-boyfriend, cheated on my husband and now I'm feeling sad, the guilt is killing me slowly, it seems my husband knows I cheated on him but has kept silent
I could not believe this happened to me and is now coming in between my husband, my marriage, my kids, and I that I keep asking myself how did I allow this mess to happen
If in today's society, it is not uncommon for people to cheat on their spouses, but I should not be counted among those who have cheated against their husbands, In fact, according to a recent study, over 60% of people have admitted to cheating on their significant other.
While there are many reasons why people cheat, one common factor is that they are unhappy in their current relationship or marriage, while my case is different, It was a total mess and I live to regret it
Am coming out to let the public know, that I am one of those people who have cheated on their spouse. I had an affair with my ex-boyfriend, I cheated on my husband with my ex-boyfriend the guy who broke my virginity a year before I meet my husband and we got married after three years of courtship.
While am not happing sharing this sad story of how I slept with my ex-boyfriend and cheated on my husband, am writing because I need help, my marriage is about to end. It was in the middle of the night, in a different city when it happened
And This Is How It All Happened: How I Slept With My Ex And Cheated On My Husband
I was in love with this guy so much that we do everything together, aside from the fact that we share the same goals, and religion put us far from each other.He was a Muslim and I, was a Christian. I lost my virginity to him (we were both naïve in that practice anyway). My parents forbid me and we drifted apart but I loved him still.
I met another guy afterward who shares the same belief with me and we got married three years later. My ex-boyfriend came to the wedding and celebrated with me even during the reception( my husband already know his story and was not surprised when he saw him at the wedding.
A year after the birth of my son, I had an official assignment in another location where my ex's sister lives and because I could not complete the assignment that same day. I decided to sleep over at her place, and called her to let her know of my coming, she was cool and ask I should come and pass the night at her place
On getting there, I saw my ex sitting in the living room. It was already late at that time and I couldn't go back or book a hotel room, so I decided to chill out, telling myself that nothing must happen between us that day. undecided my greatest mistake happened that night!
The apartment was just 3 bedrooms. A master bedroom for the sister, a room for the children, and the other for a visitor. Now we are having two visitors who once shared a thing.
Sadly the cheating started when my ex invited me into the room but I declined to tell him I would rather sleep on the floor in the living room or that he should bring a mattress for me.
He brought the mattress in the visitor's room into the living room and we both slept on it. One thing led to another in the middle of the night.... cry cry cry cry cry, and it happened! coincidentally, we have sex over and over, I cheated on my husband, my husband called at that time, and my ex-boyfriend and I are already on it, so I had to switch off my phone.
When I got back home the next day, I apologized to my husband that I had a flat battery and he didn't say anything but my husband never looked at me the same again. He never quarreled or said anything even after a couple of years later.
But the way he talks sometimes is as if he knows I am hiding a secret from him and he wants me to open up to him. I fear that if I should open up, I might lose my marriage and my family. What happened between my ex-boyfriend that night and me was a one-time thing. I never went back or saw him again. It has been 10 years now and I am still feeling bad about it especially when my husband talked about cheating couples, the danger, and shame
This feeling is eating me up, for 10 years the pain has not left, I don't know if I should still open up to him or if I should forever remain silent about it and never disclosed what happened that night to my husband
She said she cheated on her husband with her ex-boyfriend about 10 years ago, and to date, she still feels the pain. In her story, she travels and landed at her ex-boyfriend's sister's house where she met her ex-boyfriend, one thing leads to another and both end up having sex
Her words, I went to my ex-boyfriend's sister's house, met my ex-boyfriend there and we had sex. I felt guilty the whole time. When I got home, my husband knows I cheated on him but keep silent, he is expecting me to confess and I have this feeling, of letting my husband know what happened between me and my ex-boyfriend who had dis-virgin me a year before I met him my husband and will get married three years after, letting my husband know I cheated on him may break my marriage, I love my husband and kids and can't afford to lose my marriage, Please what can I do